Suffering is something nobody wants to talk about, or preach about. It’s not popular and it’s not fun, but it is an integral part of every person’s life. It can bring out the best in or the worst - but it is never in vain. The Lord promises to be with us in every part of our life, especially the hard parts. Suffering brings us to the end of our own strength so that we lean into God’s strength. The believer always has this option, but sadly they don’t always take it.
God never said that He wouldn’t give us more than we could handle, He said that HE would help us handle whatever we face. He is with us always!