There are lots of people trying to figure out who they are and why they’re here on earth. They don’t want the answer to have anything to do with God or with Jesus. They want it to come from within themselves. But, it doesn’t work that way at all.
God created us on purpose for a purpose - we must seek Him for these purposes to be revealed to us. We are who He says we are - redeemed by Christ’s blood, children of God, beloved, blessed, and chosen. God always wants to help us and to do what’s best for us… whether we “get it” or not. He is always on our side!